tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3382987150662081702.post7681182740224970482..comments2023-06-28T05:49:03.492-07:00Comments on Marathon's Mistress: The RoommatesToddyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06844041827618501741noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3382987150662081702.post-55647994674939150952011-03-23T20:51:35.960-07:002011-03-23T20:51:35.960-07:00I think you're on track. It's not you, it&...I think you're on track. It's not you, it's them! lol<br /><br />Six months is still new for some couples... when they lose that giggly closeness they'll either crash and burn or soar. <br /><br />Just let it go for now. :)IntrigueMehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08072366709639932651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3382987150662081702.post-30959188685211162722011-03-20T08:08:24.451-07:002011-03-20T08:08:24.451-07:00That would bug the hell out of me, personally. I ...That would bug the hell out of me, personally. I have a couple of "couple friends" like that and it's just like... you have all the time in the world to do that LATER. Pay attention to your friends.Storm. Kat Storm.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06865973596168021775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3382987150662081702.post-944001347255142902011-03-19T17:36:51.813-07:002011-03-19T17:36:51.813-07:00It's interesting food for thought. It could be...It's interesting food for thought. It could be awkward if Mr. U is trying add them into more social outings but it doesn't seem like he has that sort of need. Maybe you could view them like the person at the grocery store you always see because your free time to shop coincides. Or the extras in all epic war movie battle scenes... just different setting and costumes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3382987150662081702.post-79704923162422083772011-03-19T15:24:49.102-07:002011-03-19T15:24:49.102-07:00There are always going to be those people who don&...There are always going to be those people who don't know where the line is. Probably because everyone's line is someplace different. Sure, this isn't what you or I might do, but sadly, it IS what they do. I would say it's not a big deal, though. BUT I have been known to cut the night short when someone I'm out with is behaving that way.WashingTinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17987548913994006257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3382987150662081702.post-23716197603363988552011-03-19T15:19:33.906-07:002011-03-19T15:19:33.906-07:00"It really hurt my feelings at first because ..."It really hurt my feelings at first because I thought maybe they didn't like me. That they were good friends with Mr. U so they should want to be good friends with me."<br /><br />It sounds so fundamental and basic to like-minded people, but other people just don't see it that way. Or lack the capacity - that 'gene' - to see why getting to know you should matter at all. <br /><br />Bummer that you gotta deal with that deal. Tell the Unicorn to lose the roomie already.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3382987150662081702.post-69092582811545565452011-03-18T12:50:20.667-07:002011-03-18T12:50:20.667-07:00Well, can we talk about how perfect I am? No? Ok...Well, can we talk about how perfect I am? No? Okay. I would also be curious as to what Mr. U thinks about it. Maybe they are weirdos or maybe they've just fallen so madly in love that they only have eyes for each other. That will probably fade, but if not, sounds like the perfect match!Clicking Frogshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09203926249142869762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3382987150662081702.post-29029285718884541442011-03-18T11:39:27.485-07:002011-03-18T11:39:27.485-07:00Everyone has their own personal limit when it come...Everyone has their own personal limit when it comes to PDAs. Yours - and mine - appear to be about the same. There's nothing wrong with a little smooch <i>every once in a while</i> to show your affection. But to be constantly attached at the hip is a whole 'nother animal. It is rude and very, very high school. Maybe the boy - since he's known them longer - can have a chat with his friend. A simple "Hey man, that's kinda rude," comment might make a world of difference.FoggyDewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07934197854661226301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3382987150662081702.post-16784868122787941582011-03-17T06:56:31.041-07:002011-03-17T06:56:31.041-07:00Awk-ward! I'd prob be feeling more than a lit...Awk-ward! I'd prob be feeling more than a little put off by that too. As for the roommates, I know what is like to feel like you'll never REALLY become friends with some of the people who are close to your SO...it can be kind of a lonely feeling (and sad, as you say!) But it has to be a two way street and they have to match the effort you put forth. Maybe in time??Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17917351901695105543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3382987150662081702.post-27400954849490574612011-03-16T19:39:38.546-07:002011-03-16T19:39:38.546-07:00um yeah, that's weird. But I wonder if they do...um yeah, that's weird. But I wonder if they don't really realize they're even doing it. In the 'zone' or something and nobody has bothered to tip them off to the rude factor. Definitely, THEM not YOU.Jolenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15325463416827122179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3382987150662081702.post-61156977996444678292011-03-16T18:21:13.255-07:002011-03-16T18:21:13.255-07:00I kinda get it. Yeah, it's socially inept. Yea...I kinda get it. Yeah, it's socially inept. Yeah, it's obnoxioius. Yeah, it's rude. But there is nothing better than that early, just in love, nobody else in the whole world feeling. Give them a little more time, it'll wear off and they'll be civillized human beings again. Trust me, I've been one of those people. It's a feeling that you miss when it's gone. Desperately. Let them enjoy it as long as they can, and give it a few more months before you write them off as a freak show.Susanleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14864319996180586857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3382987150662081702.post-7329732072383024022011-03-16T14:13:49.086-07:002011-03-16T14:13:49.086-07:00Could you invite her out for a one-on-one? Maybe a...Could you invite her out for a one-on-one? Maybe a little convo over a mani or a drink would help you get to know her outside of her duo and then it would be easier for you later. (Or it would confirm that she is socially awkward and strange as you thought and then you can forget about it.)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3382987150662081702.post-85251578501112563002011-03-16T13:12:29.347-07:002011-03-16T13:12:29.347-07:00Curious if their close friends also feel that way....Curious if their close friends also feel that way. What does your guy think?<br /><br />It's a slippery slope to close yourself off to everyone around you (if that's in fact what they're doing), especially good friends. If it doesn't work out, and you come crawling back to your friends...don't think they'll have forgotten how you vanished into the abyss of a relationship!Maurahttp://www.maurametolove.comnoreply@blogger.com